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Crafty mom

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There is something about the new year combined with winter stir craze that inspires me to be one of those moms--or to at least try. You know, one of those mom ideals that include crafts and baking cookies? Field trips with lots of photographs? Scrap booking perhaps? A mom with a polite, well mannered and well dressed child that probably is so adorably correct that when he farts it smells like roses. 

Maybe not all that. I still don't know how all that is possible. There must be a part time nanny in there somewhere or at least the added freedom of a whole lotta cash. Neither of which is going on over here where each day is a blur

I'm quite proud of how far I've come. Yes, haven't used that expensive degree in a paying job, but I am teaching. I went from not being able to cook to cooking healthy meals for the family. I've signed on for a CSA (more about THAT another time), I am scrap booking (albeit digitally over at shutterfly.com), I am reading Literature (capital 'L'), and I even find time now and then to sit down and do something crafty with the boy child. 

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Valentines! Why? Because when I was a kid I loved all holidays and not a Valentine's Day went by without my mom leaving a little something special for my brother and I. I remember a Valentine pencil and rubber ball left on the kitchen table to find before school one year. It made the day special. It made me feel treasured and loved. 

I may not be religious, but holidays are fun. Something to break up the tedium and make a day special, even magical for a child. Holidays are nothing but a mutable hodgepodge of religions anyway. Jason, who never celebrated any holidays as a child, can tell you how much it sucked.

So, here I am stepping into my mother's shoes. Learning to cook (I am the daughter of the woman who burnt a hardboiled egg but totally rocks her kitchen now), writing my children letters and putting them together into photo books (reminiscent of the baby books and photo albums my mother created) and working to make the holidays meaningful for my children. 

We will be sending out our Valentines with little treats. 

Passing on the love.

Making a tradition.

Call me, Housewife Extreme. 
100_2952.JPGI've mentioned that River is in a community preschool. If you're anything like me, you're probably thinking--WTF is that?

(Maybe you aren't thinking that in exactly those words. I might have cleaned up my vocal speech but my mental one is rampant with cusses.)

Earlier this summer my neighbor, a mother of three, explained what it was and asked if I was interested in participating. I enthusiastically agreed, but heard nothing of it until a few days before Sage was born when we exchanged emails. An email came soon after Sage was born and with an eleven day old in tow I was meeting a group of moms at a local playground.

100_2964.JPGA community preschool is a mom/dad run preschool in your community. River's preschool meets twice a week, Tuesdays and Thursdays, for two hours apiece. We have a set list of topics and a weekly letter. Each mom teaches twice their assigned week. We cycle through our rotation hosting class at the "teacher of the week" 's home. We work on classroom rules (sitting still, listening, sharing, raising hands, answering questions) and each week we sing with the kids, play a game or two, do a craft, and read books about our topic. We also allow them a snack and play time if they behave. Otherwise we lock them in metal cages and poke them with sharp sticks. So far they've been so well behaved, that I've only been able to use my stick as a back scratcher. Shucks.

100_2960.JPGFor my week I taught about farms and the letter 'A'. Our only little girl was absent and my friend was visiting with her son, so there was a total of five little boys (ages 2--3 years. River being the youngest.) I loved it. It always takes me working with children to re-realize how much I thrive as a teacher. The only problem for me being the politics and administration that goes along with public education and always throws me back onto the, "I don't want to use my very expensive degree because teaching sucks hard" wagon. Of course, that does not apply in community preschool. Though neither does five day work weeks and a pay check.

100_2965.JPGWhat is also great about community preschool (beside the cost---free!) is the flexibility to do what we want. We are taking major advantage of our local community to enrich our mini lessons. So far we've gone to the zoo when we learned about...well...zoos. We also went to a farm* (hay ride, petting zoo, pumpkins, etc) my teaching week. If you think field trips don't count as teaching, guess again. My expensive New York State teaching degree was quite adamant that learning should have as many real-world connections as possible. What is more real about learning about farms than watching a bunch of sleeping pigs?

In your face, naysayers!

HA!

pigs.JPGRiver is very much not ready for a traditional preschool. I know that now watching him in our preschool. So this is providing him a nice, safe, transition into the real deal preschool I may or may not enroll him in next fall. Right now it is about getting used to being somewhere other than home with someone other than mommy, learning classroom etiquette, socializing and being exposed to new topics and ideas.

Community preschool does it all, for now, for us.

* Clark's Elioak Farm

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Easy ways to encourage early literacy

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I've heard tell of those three and four year olds that could read. I myself was not one of them. From what I can recall, I learned to read along with the bulk of kids. At one point, I went to reading in a different classroom be it because I was behind or advanced--I don't know now. In second grade when I moved in the middle of the school year and (perhaps due to this or my late birthday in October) my new teacher suggested I be held back a year, a repeat in her classroom, and my mother readily agreed. I enjoyed repeating second grade. I was blessed with a wonderful teacher who not only really ignited my love of reading, but also encouraged me to write my first book. I have not stopping writing or reading voraciously since. 

But what can parents do to support early readers? You'll see pamphlets in doctor's offices and libraries because what you do with your child in those early years really is that important.

I'm going to tell you what I do and a bit of what I learned in college and through my experiences teaching where I was fortunate to work with a lot of students from K-12th grade. 

1. read & write
Yes, you read. Modeling a love of books encourages your child to pick a book up himself. Show your child how you use reading to function/that it has a functional use--reading circulars at the grocery store, signs on the street, text on the side of a construction vehicle. The same goes for writing-- write grocery lists in front of him or send out holiday cards. It is as easy as saying, "Mommy is writing out the food we need to buy. This word is cookie!"

While working in a kindergarten classroom I was assigned an assessment by my college professor to test students understanding of print. We were given a book and sat one on one with a student and asked them some of the following questions, "Where is the front of the book? Where is the back? Can you turn to the first page? Can you show me a word? A letter? A period? A question mark? How do you know what is happening on this page?" 

Can you believe there were students who didn't know how to hold a book or turn the pages from right to left? Children who were read to before school knew these things. They know that sentences began at the left and run to the write. They knew what a word was as opposed to a letter. So if you see your one year old sitting on the floor flipping through a book correctly than know you have already taught them a basic reading concept! 

2. Print rich environment
Let there be words! Books for your child that he can access whenever he wishes, paper and pens (parental advisement until they learn not to write on the wall), and labels. Let him make that connection that words are part of the day to day and have applicable meaning!

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Quick decorations with labels. I might ask River, "Can you find the letter W?" or "What is this?" and as he tells me, I will point to the word he is saying.

3. Library visits
We go to the library once a week and check out an average of about 15 books. Some of the books are kept in the bedroom to read before nap time and bedtime. Some are kept in the living room to read throughout the day and for River to look through. It spices up the library each week, though I still end up reading The Cat and the Hat at least once a day.

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4. Writing time
If I am writing, River writes too. I let him use my pens even. He had a mini chalk board and a magnet board. Sometimes we sit and have mini lessons where I write words he wants me to or I write words and say them letter by letter and ask him what he thinks it is. Or I write a word and ask him to tell me the letters. I have recently begun writing while holding his hand under mine so he can feel how it is to make letters. He gets a kick out of it. If he scribbles something I ask him what word he is writing. 

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5. reading reading and reading some more
read to your child every day. Before bedtime is a great time to read. 

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River's reading corner
6. talk while you read
Ask you child to tell you what they see on the cover of the book. Pause during reading to check for comprehension or to just get the child involved. Sometimes I pause to explain what the picture is showing. After you are done reading you can ask the child to tell you what the book was about or if they liked it. Of course, very young children won't be able to say much, but you might be surprised. At least, it will get them thinking and get you into the habit of making reading aloud an active, learning experience. 

7. appeal to child's interests
River is obsessed with fire trucks and construction vehicles. You bet we read about those things a lot. When he was very young we focused on animals (mostly cats) and mommies, daddies and babies. The things he understood. You'll find that very young children have longer attention spans for book content that is relevant to their own little lives. As they learn more language you can use books to teach them about things that they have no prior knowledge of. 

8. repeated reading
You might be tired of reading The Cat in The Hat for the third time in one day, but repeated reading is very beneficial to children. And yes, they might memorize the entire book. This is not truly reading, but it does make them feel good about themselves and you shouldn't tell them otherwise. 

9. the alphabet
sing it,  talk about it, practice letter identification. Currently, River can identify most of the letters of the alphabet. We'll keep playing name that letter until he knows them all easily and then I will begin to talk about the sounds the letters make. For now, we "read" only in upper case letters and I only write upper case letters for him. They are two different languages to little children. The first time I came across a child who could read, but could not read in cursive, I was astounded. You forget how different these forms of our alphabet are!

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Great alphabet book by Eric Carle
10. Sing and rhythm
Nursery rhythms and songs are great aids in encouraging early literacy. Easy, entertaining, and especially useful for long car rides. 

We are our children's first teachers. Take advantage of that and you very well could have them reading before they enter school! 


Function to abstraction

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I've had education on the mind lately inspired by a rather heated (in agreement heated) discussion between Jason and I in the car on the way back from Safeway. 

One thing lead to another and my dissatisfaction with the education system got me all riled up and flustered. I may be certified to teach elementary school, but I think the big problem, the big horrible mess, is American middle and high schools.

Let me ask you this, "How much do you really remember from high school?"

Wait, let me ask it this way, "How much of what you learned in high school was functionally applicable in the real world/your adult life?"

I'm going to go out on a limb and venture to say, "Very little".

What are the goals of the education system? 

I believe it is to nurture the creation of functional adults who can be active, efficient members of society. 

I do not believe that middle and high schools are doing this for students. Now, I can really only speak from a New York State viewpoint because I have little to no knowledge of the way things are done in other states.

Quick blurb: in New York state there are standardized tests and teachers often teach to the tests. 

I'm sorry but in depth geometry is not going to help me pay my bills. Shakespeare is not going to help me maintain my car, establish credit or write a resume for a job. 

I basically feel like I was set loose into the world with no knowledge about how to function in it. Luckily, I had a husband who is older and knew a thing or two. Not too much older and that probably explains the many Fuck-Ups we've experienced together. 

You might want to put the blame on parents. But how many parents care to/have the time to/even know how to fill in the gaps that public education leave open?

Here is my two (bundles of cash) cents on the matter.

I believe education should go from function to abstraction. That first children should be taught functional skills that will aid them in the real-world as adults. 

Instead of building wooden bridges in technology class, learn basic car maintenance. They should learn how to budget, invest money, apply for jobs, interview, prepare for college, basic math used on a day to day basis. Literature should be contemporary and relate directly to their age and experiences as much as possible. 

From funciontanity, education should move into the abstract at student's choice. I believe students shouldn't have to waste their time learning subjects they don't enjoy or don't plan to use in the future. 

Once the basics are out of the way, students should be allowed to focus. Here is where they can get into complex math, further studies in the sciences, an entire six weeks devoted to Shakespeare. 

What I'm thinking of is more of a college style format for the latter years of high school. This puts more choice, responsibiltiy and focus of the students' shoulders. Students should enjoy school. 

If the spark of learning can be ignited, then they will be self-motivated to continue learning. Education should be shaped around their needs and interests and not a pre-set mold that students are pushed into. 

Putting my school'in to work

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In a different aspect of my life, I thought I'd be teaching elementary school. I have since resigned myself to the fact that this isn't going to be for many reasons but mostly the following:

1. teaching elementary school involves a good amount of cheer and I am lacking in anything but the blatant truth. I don't think I can always put on a good face and I want to share the meat, the gory and hideous truth, with students.

2. Extending off the first, I am too head strong, loose, and blunt to try to mold myself into a "teacher". 

3. Teaching elementary school is not usually intellectually stimulating

4. After having a son, I really don't want to deal with children all day.

But I don't think I am done with the teaching field, because I do love school. I do love learning. Oh, yes indeed I love a stimulating conversation and calm debate. So I feel further schooling might be in my future and possibly high school or college teaching. 

I do find that my education as an educator and experience in the classroom is helping me do what is best for my son for his early education. There hasn't been all that much I could do, until lately. Sure, we read books from the very start, we talk, our interaction is a lesson in verbal skills on a daily basis. I test his knowledge and reinforce it each day. We talk about what we see in books before, during and after reading them. These are things that come naturally and I don't think about. 

But since his focus on Sesame Street, I've discovered he's ready for the next step. He can now sit through entire picture books if the content is one he is familiar with (ie: animals). Recently we purchased River a number of books on numbers and letters. Already, after a few short weeks and constant repetition, he can point when we count (modeling my pointing). 

I'm not bragging here. 

The only number he knows is "two" and all he says is "two" and he says "two" after one, three, and four. But by pointing, I know he is beginning to grasp that counting is objects in a series. He's associating the numbers (words) with objects. 

The ABC's I approach mainly by singing and pointing. We also purchased foam letters for River to play with during bath time. I don't think he is to a place where his little brain can identify abstract shapes very well yet. Though he might be able to take "D" out of my hand and agree it is or "Daddy", he will then pick up every other letter and tell me it is also "D". 

When in college, one of those things I saw a lot and was taught about was a WORD WALL. Now in elementary schools you generally see it squished all onto one board and under each letter is words that start with, for example, "A". Since River is a pre-reader is the most generous definition (A pre-pre-pre-pre-PRE  reader) I put pictures of objects I know he knows, that he can identify, ask for, and say when asked to, under the letter "A" and by the corresponding written word. 

As we were doing this, I talked about "A" and the words that begin with "A" and had River help me put them on the wall. Of course he was most interested in "Abby": the pink fairy from Sesame Street.

We'll add more words when needed and every couple days, we'll add another letter of the alphabet. At this point it is all about exposure. See it. Hear it. Say it. See it. Hear it. Say it. Again and again and again.

I don't expect my son to read by age three nor do I feel he has to be potty trained at age two, but I do think it is my responsibility as his parent and first teacher to use whatever skills I have to help him learn. I'm lucky enough to have a degree. Though not so lucky to have the massive debt that goes with it.

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the start of River's word wall

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